The One Thing My Dad Never Missed

Most kids don’t remember what you did.
They do remember that you were there.

Life is hard today.
We have many priorities pulling on us.
We have many responsibilities pulling us away from our family.

Today most couples need to both get jobs.
The pay in the jobs went down and financing requires both incomes to make a living.

When I was growing up, I was fortunate enough for my dad to have a job that would allow us to live with one income only.
My mother could stay at home.
Focus all her attention and time on us kids.

One thing I knew that I also want for my kids—
There was one thing that I also observed.

I recently spoke with my dad about it.
He said it was the one thing he wouldn’t negotiate:
He would always be home for dinner.

As long as I remember, that’s what he did.
He was home every day at 5:30 for dinner.

That might sound like a lot.
There is one more thing to it:
He also always left after family breakfast.

This is something that is hard to come by today—
Home for breakfast and dinner while also making enough money to provide on one income alone.

I don’t remember what we did at dinner.
I do remember he was home for dinner every night.

That’s how important it is to be present at home.
That’s what I remember.
To be home for dinner.

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